Trouble with flash animation loading

Hello,
I am having a problem with the free flash animation, the First one (the pink and black one). I have go daddy and figured out how to upload it but now I can't get it to start. My site is www.allthingscrystalandmore.com I published the site to see if anyone can help me solve this problem. The flash just keeps loading, I've customized it to my liking already. I just need it to play. I posted this question before but took the flash off my site since it was messing up my site. Does anyone have a solution for this problem?

Thanks
ehillery